When I tell men how I participate in women’s events and rallies, sometimes I get double-takes and certain looks that seem to question how radical I am — if I’m “too liberal” and a rabble-rouser. I get asked if I shave my legs, if I’m “one of those bra-burners,” or if I’ve ever been a lesbian. But when it …
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I Wear What I Want
Whenever I meet people for the first time, I always want to put my best foot forward. Attire and presentation are good manners; that’s truly what I believe. And I expect the same in return. It’s not about the brand of clothing or style, but as long as someone comes correct to me, clean and …
The Year of 28
I always heard that everything starts to come together at 28. People settle down and get married, you kind of find what you want to do in life and your career starts to take hold, people nestle into their true personalities. Supposedly, it’s the best year of your 20s. You’re unapologetic, still young enough to …
Why I’m More Than Just a ‘Female’
“All females are the same.” “I’m tired of these females out here.” “You’re a different type of female. You’re special. That’s why I can talk to you.” I’ve heard it all before: any sort of derogative way that a man can coin a woman solely as a “female”, disregarding the fact that she is more …
Dictating politics in romance
I never seriously imagined that personal politics would dictate the outcome to any relationship that I have. Of course, we all have our set criteria that we think is important when it comes to choosing a significant other. Whether it’s a great face, great body, good job, a lot of money, if the person comes …
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